Thanks for the post Rob.
We are listening.
We have just released an update that gives control over the sort order. This we thought was the number 1 issue out of what you requested.
We have added work items to our list for most of your other items, and we are thinking about including the lightbox effects for the form.
This module uses MS maps, and was first released to tap into their services just after they created them. We now find their services are lagging way behind Google... . and... we get very ticked off with MS that every search returns a result for USA. (MS... Sydney is not only a town in USA... see 2000 Olympics). So now we will do Google maps.
The only item of your post we do not agree with is the email address item. We believe that you should never list your email address. This is why the form feature is included. If this does not meet your needs, then link it to a Feedback Designer module found on this site.
We are not saying just when all this will be done, but we have started with a release today.